My next door neighbors and close friends; this is the Visser family.
And like any normal family, there are struggles.
Struggles to be everything to everyone, struggles to maintain some degree of order and control in the household, neither of which, frankly, are entirely possible. Add to that the endless list of day to day responsibilities without losing oneself, maintaining some sense of a unique identity, and anyone can see just how difficult the balance becomes.
That feeling of overload became clear when I tried (quite unsuccessfully) to pin down how I could visually define Jeremy. Husband, parent, churchgoer, soccer player (until he recently got injured), cook, gardener and student; I didn’t know how to boil him down.
Then I realized… “Let’s do all of it!”
Shelly, in the meantime, though far from leading a simple life, is a stay-at-home mom to their two beautiful kids as well as a piano teacher.
And just like their parents, when we were all done, the kids shut the door on me and stared. Yeah, the Vissers are an interesting bunch…
But I’m sure glad they’re my neighbors







